Why do I feel like love isn't a real thing? Does anyone else ever feel like this? I mean, I know that I love my family and animals, but I'm talking about the kind of love you're supposedly to feel in like a relationship or marriage. I believe you can have strong feelings or lust for someone, but love? I don't know know about that. Could this come from having guys treat me bad in all of my relationships? What exactly does true love feel like? Does it really exist, or is it some kind of trick of your brain? I don't think I will ever know how it feels if it is real. I'm not good looking enough for guys to give me a chance. The guys that I did go out with were losers who lied and cheated. I wasn't even pretty enough for them.

Why do I feel like love isn't a real thing? Does anyone else ever feel like this? I mean, I know that I love my family and animals, but I'm talking about the kind of love you're supposedly to feel in like a relationship or marriage. I believe you can have strong feelings or lust for someone, but love? I don't know know about that. Could this come from having guys treat me bad in all of my relationships? What exactly does true love feel like? Does it really exist, or is it some kind of trick of your brain? I don't think I will ever know how it feels if it is real. I'm not good looking enough for guys to give me a chance. The guys that I did go out with were losers who lied and cheated. I wasn't even pretty enough for them. 

Geez! I dont know HOW so many of you YOUNG lady's have fallin thru cracks and appear to be a "fluke" of nature, appearing NOT to be genetically altered to match the NEW and IMPROVED "socially engineered" project results, that began around 87?...I see MANY XXs' on here, where DNA transformation WAS successful, and if ya compare MY teen decade of the 70s, with the 21st, the STARK contrast is a no brainer, but I really feel for the VERY young (13 -14) I see on HERE, who actually read the Harlequin novels (who knew???), wonderin if they'll ever have an hopeless romantic encounter. Hell, at 14 , I was a the rooftop in the RAIN with a measily 3W radio ,talkin to MY baby girl, and missed her so much one SUN, i rode the 10 spd 37mi, to her grand parents house to be with her (they were NOT impressed..lol)..Pickin wild flowers in a pasture field at 7:10 am, before school, with 3 ROGUE ASS horses about to bite my ass. OMG! , I used to beatfeet up a rikityass fire escape stairwell , risk gettin my ass PADDLED,just to SEE her and pass a love note before lunch, 5th period...Been hangin here bout 9 months regular now and have only seen 4-5-6 maybe, hopeless romantic XYs HERE, who's "emotional quotient" being reminiscent of the 70s/80s, so there IS HOPE girl !........ I can MOST ASSURE you that your last sentence holds ZERO TRUTH,as well as THIS one "I'm not good looking enough for guys to give me a chance"...In my travels, playin 3 country's for 26 yrs straight, as a road musician , I can honestly say, Ive NEVER met an "ugly" XX...Playin mostly clubs, seeing 15-30 women up close, 5-6 nights /wk, theres ALWAY some feature, trait, attribute I find appleaing. Ive posted THIS before and would like to share it with ya..THIS is REALITY babe:..................... I want to post MY lil summation of where I find Girls to "rate" on this "percieved" scale of UGLY vrs PRETTY...This is from a reply, which Ive used a few times when I think it can help........... ...What Ive found to be the TRUTH regarding everybodys "appearence" is that We all fit somewhere in the middle of this sliding scale...Yep , you and I are one of the dash's smack in the middle. Ugly----------------Pretty. Its WAY too subjective and opinionated too have a standard..I find several female comediennes beautiful, absolutely to DIE for, but never a word is spoken, or written about their appearence good or bad, unless they're found drunk , throwin up in a toliet..LOL..THEN, when "judging" those ,who are supposed to represent this fake facecade that the Status Que HAS deemed the "Prettiest of all" OMG! Really?..Anyone of my Comedienne's would EASILY take the crown over ANY of these status Que picks so???...Its MY opinion, Its MY standards... You have YOUR same preferences which Im sure another Girl would say EEEW GROSS...LOL...You add EVERYBODYS "preferences and standards" together mish mash them up in a hat, draw one out .... Guess what, after its judged by everyone, its gonna fit right there in the middle of that scale...PLUS , being a guy, We are content with all the lil bumps, curves, dimples, pudges, blimishes, YOUR trying to hide , thinking they're offensive when quite honestly, WE find them endearing making you "imperfectly PERFECT" in our eyes and part of who you are, that mixes with what we LOVE about you on the INSIDE..Its a package deal girl.................. Id ALSO like to share THIS personal summation of MY exp regarding the "Pompitous of LUV" ............ Oh YEAH! Its real...I think its manifested two different ways. Theres the emotional response created when your WITH that person, who I believe cant just be"anybody", that provides an indescribable amount of joy and well being, CONFIDENCE (a biggie),on top of the world (you both control now),where all the great wonders around you..... the sea, huge mountains,and even lil things like flowers, two birds together, take on a hightened sense of awareness, beauty, wonderment and appreciation. Where theres absolutely no flaw you find in this person thats not easily forgivable, with you finding them "imperfectly PERFECT".THEN, the another emotional response when your WITHOUT that person at work, or other reason your away, where the seritionin/ dopamine, which I was glad to see mentioned in the 1st response, keeping the brain flooded, producing a sense of longing/yearning for the return of sensory contact (touch, smell,sight "windows to the soul", hearing the sweet voice) which maintains keeping the imagination alive so the heart survives/staying emotionally "healthy" ,all the while projecting into the future of a great life foretold, having a very thankful attitude, for this person in your life, who no one could replace. . Ive had it twice over the yrs during the 70s /80s... Its was a totally different time period though.... Not sure its possible ("FOR ME" ) again in this swipe right/ left, block/ delete virtual sea of dehumanity here in the 21st..

Geez! I dont know HOW so many of you YOUNG lady's have fallin thru cracks and appear to be a "fluke" of nature, appearing NOT to be genetically altered to match the NEW and IMPROVED "socially engineered" project results, that began around 87?...I see MANY XXs' on here, where DNA transformation WAS successful, and if ya compare MY teen decade of the 70s, with  the 21st, the STARK contrast is a no brainer, but I really feel for the VERY young (13 -14) I see on HERE, who actually read the Harlequin novels (who knew???), wonderin if they'll ever have an hopeless romantic encounter. Hell, at 14 , I was a the rooftop in the RAIN with a measily 3W radio ,talkin to MY baby girl, and missed her so much one SUN, i rode the 10 spd 37mi, to her grand parents house to be with her (they were NOT impressed..lol)..Pickin wild flowers in a pasture field at 7:10 am, before school, with 3 ROGUE ASS horses about to bite my ass. OMG! , I used to beatfeet up a rikityass fire escape stairwell , risk gettin my ass PADDLED,just to SEE her and pass a  love note before lunch, 5th period...Been hangin here bout 9 months regular now and have only seen 4-5-6 maybe, hopeless romantic XYs HERE, who's "emotional quotient" being reminiscent of the 70s/80s, so there IS HOPE girl !........I can MOST ASSURE you that your last sentence holds ZERO TRUTH,as well as THIS one "I'm not good looking enough for guys to give me a chance"...In my travels, playin 3 country's for 26 yrs straight, as a road musician , I can honestly say, Ive NEVER met an "ugly" XX...Playin mostly clubs, seeing 15-30 women up close, 5-6 nights /wk, theres ALWAY some feature, trait, attribute I find appleaing. Ive posted THIS before and would like to share it with ya..THIS is REALITY babe:.....................I want to post MY lil summation of where I find Girls to "rate" on this "percieved" scale of  UGLY vrs PRETTY...This is from a reply, which Ive used a few times when I think it can help..............What Ive found to be the TRUTH regarding everybodys "appearence" is that We all fit somewhere in the middle of this sliding scale...Yep , you and I are one of the dash's smack in the middle. Ugly----------------Pretty. Its WAY too subjective and opinionated too have a standard..I find several female comediennes beautiful, absolutely to DIE for, but never a word is spoken, or written about their appearence good or bad, unless they're found drunk , throwin up in a toliet..LOL..THEN, when "judging" those ,who are supposed to represent this fake facecade that the Status Que HAS deemed the "Prettiest of all" OMG! Really?..Anyone of my Comedienne's would EASILY take the crown over ANY of these status Que picks so???...Its MY opinion, Its MY standards... You have YOUR same preferences which Im sure another Girl would say EEEW GROSS...LOL...You add EVERYBODYS "preferences and standards" together mish mash them up in a hat, draw one out .... Guess what, after its judged by everyone, its gonna fit right there in the middle of that scale...PLUS , being a guy, We are content with all the lil bumps, curves, dimples, pudges, blimishes, YOUR trying to hide , thinking they're offensive when quite honestly, WE find them endearing making you "imperfectly PERFECT" in our eyes and part of who you are, that mixes with what we LOVE about you on the INSIDE..Its a package deal girl..................Id ALSO like to share THIS personal summation of MY exp regarding the "Pompitous of LUV" ............Oh YEAH! Its real...I think its manifested two different ways. Theres the emotional response created when your WITH that person, who I believe cant just be"anybody", that provides an indescribable amount of joy and well being, CONFIDENCE (a biggie),on top of the world (you both control now),where all the great wonders around you..... the sea, huge mountains,and even lil things like flowers, two birds together, take on a hightened sense of awareness, beauty, wonderment and appreciation. Where theres absolutely no flaw you find in this person thats not easily forgivable, with you finding them "imperfectly PERFECT".THEN, the another emotional response when your WITHOUT that person at work, or other reason your away, where the seritionin/ dopamine, which I was glad to see mentioned in the 1st response, keeping the brain flooded, producing a sense of longing/yearning for the return of sensory contact (touch, smell,sight "windows to the soul", hearing the sweet voice) which maintains keeping the imagination alive so the heart survives/staying emotionally "healthy" ,all the while projecting into the future of a great life foretold, having a very thankful attitude, for this person in your life, who no one could replace. . Ive had it twice over the yrs during the 70s /80s... Its was a totally different time period though.... Not sure its possible ("FOR ME" ) again in this swipe right/ left, block/ delete virtual sea of dehumanity here in the 21st..