(Pansexual Female here) Well, about 3 months ago I got out of a relationship. She wants us to still be friends but I think I still have feelings for her. Our breakup was kind of messy and I never really actually y'know what the word... grieved? I don't think that's the right word but it 1 in the morning so it's fine. She is still friends with some of my friends and I have no problem with that but I think that one of my best friends is catching feelings for her. My friend is not great at expressing feelings but I can see it in her eyes. (She is also Pansexual) I want to talk to her about it but I just don't know what I would do if she does.