i have a right to my emotions like everyone else no one has the right to tell any adult how to feel if I get infuriated , maudlin,melancholy,depressed i have that right to feel that way. i recall a member stating this to me when i was at my breaking point in the year 19 she said what have you got to be depressed about? and how is that question any helpful to someone who is dealing with depression its not it minimizes the person. i recall one of the members stating to me you going to be nice? i stated i am nice in a irritated response i knew where this member was getting her advise from she was getting these suggestions from other members her sister and son in law and other members who could come up with anything to shut me out.