<blockquote>im literally so sad because it's 2021 and im afraid of growing up and being an adult. im only 13 and i know that life will be hard and i will die soon. im also afraid that life is too small and i won't have time to do great things. I've been feeling like that since i was really young n I can't stop that feeling </blockquote>

im literally so sad because it's 2021 and im afraid of growing up and being an adult. im only 13 and i know that life will be hard and i will die soon. im also afraid that life is too small and i won't have time to do great things. I've been feeling like that since i was really young n I can't stop that feeling 

<p>Everyone dies. If you care this much about death than you need to chill because if all you care about while you're still alive is what's going to happen after you die then you will never actually be alive.  Life is about whatever you want to do. No one knows what happens after death. No I'm not religious but I'm also not gonna bash anything religious I'm just saying no one has real proof of anything after we die so let's not focus on death when it doesn't matter in the life we are currently living. Do whatever you want. Who cares if people call you crazy or weird that's how the weak society has raised them to be anyways . You are you NOW not after death NOW. You will go insane if you try to be with death while you're alive. You'll die in 40-70 years unless you have a disease than that sucks. 40- 70 years is a long time to try everything you want to try in life stop worrying so much about the future or you will never live in the present. I sound like I'm  being "mean" but I'm being honest and if you can't take this honesty and advice you will just be living a life of fear and anxiety over something you literally have ZERO control of.</p>

Everyone dies. If you care this much about death than you need to chill because if all you care about while you're still alive is what's going to happen after you die then you will never actually be alive.  Life is about whatever you want to do. No one knows what happens after death. No I'm not religious but I'm also not gonna bash anything religious I'm just saying no one has real proof of anything after we die so let's not focus on death when it doesn't matter in the life we are currently living. Do whatever you want. Who cares if people call you crazy or weird that's how the weak society has raised them to be anyways . You are you NOW not after death NOW. You will go insane if you try to be with death while you're alive. You'll die in 40-70 years unless you have a disease than that sucks. 40- 70 years is a long time to try everything you want to try in life stop worrying so much about the future or you will never live in the present. I sound like I'm  being "mean" but I'm being honest and if you can't take this honesty and advice you will just be living a life of fear and anxiety over something you literally have ZERO control of.

Re: 2021 feels?

<p>I completely disagree with what that person replied to you about death being insignificant. It is okay to be scared. It is okay to realize that death affects us, and not brush it aside as meaningless because "everybody dies." Just know that you still have time to figure out what life is about. Also, why do you need to accomplish something? Honestly, I was that way too a while ago. But now I realize that very few people have helped me. Instead of doing "great things," just try to be kinder to those you love most. Don't worry about "accomplishing" something for the good of humanity. Most of them don't even know you exist, so why should you feel obligated in any way to do "great things." </p>

I completely disagree with what that person replied to you about death being insignificant. It is okay to be scared. It is okay to realize that death affects us, and not brush it aside as meaningless because "everybody dies." Just know that you still have time to figure out what life is about. Also, why do you need to accomplish something? Honestly, I was that way too a while ago. But now I realize that very few people have helped me. Instead of doing "great things," just try to be kinder to those you love most. Don't worry about "accomplishing" something for the good of humanity. Most of them don't even know you exist, so why should you feel obligated in any way to do "great things." 