Omg I am 44 years old with 3 kids and my parents live with me. I feel like I live with my parents all over again. And so my mother tells me I moved the chair and caught the rug under. I said I didn’t move the chair. She screams at me saying I’m a liar. Holy cow where did that come from? I probably moved it unconsciously? Thing is she’s infuriated with the whole thing. I should be a little more understanding due to her being diabetic but I can’t help but feel like a teen all over again. And all this with the kids being present doesn’t send them positive signals of good parenting.and respect for me. Bad enough that when they don’t hear a good answer from me to move on to their grandparents and get the answer they want from them. What do I do? I can’t throw them out. (It’s an Asian thing) I can’t talk to them either since they will think I am defying them. Anything that I say always is wrong to them