Thank you Vigyaa. For the past 5 years I’d lived with the guilt and insecurity of gay past experiments I had with a friend. I had no one to tell amongst my groups of friends, colleagues and even family; i just knew it would always been a scarlet letter pinned on me if ever I told anyone. But being able to tell it to people here without the judgement is such a relief. Since I did, I’ve been able to breathe freely knowing that weight has been off my chest. I now enjoy a close and intimate relationship with my fiancée without that horrible feeling that dark hell hounds are waiting in the shadows to pounce. Thank goodness for this platform!