How do you find out what it is you were made to be in life? I am 21 years old (I know I’m still young), but I feel as though my life is just passing me by. I have slim to no knowledge of what it is in life that amazes me and what life path I would like to walk. All my life my family controlled what I said, what I did, what I saw, what I experienced and it was all very much the things they wanted me to do and not at all what I was interested in. I’m a single parent of a 4 year old and I don’t want her to grow up seeing me struggle or unhappy because I haven’t discovered who I am yet. What do I do?