So last year i went to the Philippines for vacation, one of my friends i stayed with we began to date during that time & then we broke up in November in January we got back together, then i went to visit her in February this year for a month. A month later she told me not to add this guy who knows about us , he liked my photo & he & she have been dating since August last year & he went in Philippines in December & was going to go there in March to see her family but couldn’t because of COVID

I found out last night that he is planning to get her a visa to where he lives & they planned to get married some day. He is much older than her.

i don’t know what to do , how to feel , can’t sleep.