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5 months ago

Weird Chinese Ex

I had a short lived relationship with a Chinese guy. He was really sweet until I told him that I was half black. He first said that his parents wouldn't be okay with it, which is understandable. However, right after that he switched personalities and got mad at everything I said. I figured that he didn't like the fact that I was mixed so I called him out on his behavior. He told me he felt UNCOMFORTABLE with me and that he was just in a bad mood. I told him that it was okay if he didn't want to be with me because I'm mixed because he obviously had a problem with it. He told me he was hurt that I thought that he felt that way. I told him I didn't want to be with him if he was going to be like this and he was like, 'but I still love you'. I thought, you love me despite what? I ended it before my feelings could get hurt. He was hurt and I saw that he made a new social media account and posted "I cried all night last night because my ex broke up with me even though I told her I love her. I'm so depressed". I don't know if I overreacted or did myself a favor...