I feel so frustrated and disappointed in myself. My wife struggles with depression & I try my absolute best to help, & be as understanding of this disease as possible. I try to be absolutely accommodating but it breaks my heart to see her so miserable. It also sometimes pulls me down into a depressive mood. We have been together for 5 years and wasn’t this bad at the beginning. We used to have so much fun together even great conversation. We would crack up together and laugh and enjoy just the smallest moments. Now I try to bring that back and she says she’s too depressed. she has been in therapy & EMDR therapy the past year. I would do anything for her and to give her an enjoyablelife but I feel like nothing I am doing is working or helping. I have brought this up to her letting her know if there’s anything I can do that would be more helpful for her to let me know. She isn’t rude about it at all but says that when I ask her about it, it makes her feel guilty about being in a bad mood. Which I do not want her to feel guilty at all. I guess I’m just at a loss of options & also needed somewhere to vent because I do not ever want to speak negativly about her especially to anyone in our lives. Just carrying a lot of weight on my shoulders I think, needed a place to unload it for a minute. Thanks.