I can't stand my husband. He is hypocritical, a chauvinist, selfish, rude, deeming, and he thinks he a saint. It wasn't always like this, but it has gotten bad. Maybe it is worse because we are stuck in the house together all day long. But I am so sick and tired of his shit. If you are not with him you are against him and you will know it. He will mock your feelings and defend his own. He will lay around the house doing nothing and tell our son that we are a family that does our part when it is time to do a chore. He takes time during his days to do his stretching, exercise, get a massage, brush up on his foreign language or just spend time online, but if our son or I need a few minutes he is always to busy or needs to do work. I work multiple jobs and make time for everyone and everything (running, laundry, dishes, cooking, playing, homework) and he is the one stressed. What a perverse reality he lives in. I wish I could leave, but I love my son too much and my husband would try to ruin me, it is too risky. I wish there was another way. It's all I can do to make it through the day to the next one.