I can't stand my husband. He is hypocritical, a chauvinist, selfish, rude, deeming, and he thinks he a saint. It wasn't always like this, but it has gotten bad. Maybe it is worse because we are stuck in the house together all day long. But I am so sick and tired of his shit. If you are not with him you are against him and you will know it. He will mock your feelings and defend his own. He will lay around the house doing nothing and tell our son that we are a family that does our part when it is time to do a chore. He takes time during his days to do his stretching, exercise, get a massage, brush up on his foreign language or just spend time online, but if our son or I need a few minutes he is always to busy or needs to do work. I work multiple jobs and make time for everyone and everything (running, laundry, dishes, cooking, playing, homework) and he is the one stressed. What a perverse reality he lives in. I wish I could leave, but I love my son too much and my husband would try to ruin me, it is too risky. I wish there was another way. It's all I can do to make it through the day to the next one.

I can't stand my husband.  He is hypocritical, a chauvinist, selfish, rude, deeming, and he thinks he a saint.  It wasn't always like this, but it has gotten bad.  Maybe it is worse because we are stuck in the house together all day long.  But I am so sick and tired of his shit.  If you are not with him you are against him and you will know it.  He will mock your feelings and defend his own.  He will lay around the house doing nothing and tell our son that we are a family that does our part when it is time to do a chore.  He takes time during his days to do his stretching, exercise, get a massage, brush up on his foreign language or just spend time online, but if our son or I need a few minutes he is always to busy or needs to do work. I work multiple jobs and make time for everyone and everything (running, laundry, dishes, cooking, playing, homework) and he is the one stressed.  What a perverse reality he lives in.  I wish I could leave, but I love my son too much and my husband would try to ruin me, it is too risky.  I wish there was another way.  It's all I can do to make it through the day to the next one.

I was once in your situation .He became a burden to me rather than a husband or a partner.I have given him many chances for the sake of our daughter,and obviously to save the marriage.But later on I felt I lose myself.I mean I have a life a beautiful life ahead without him..then I escape from the house with my daughter with me,.he begged for us to come.back...I told him we will come back only if I see progress in your life,find job and be a responsible person..I know.him so well,that back of my head I know he cant make it..I continue my life with my daughter peacefully..after a year I found out he had girlfriend.and then eventually got 2 kids,and then same story the girl left him bcoz of his attitude..and then he.again had.many relationship,same story girl left him..I am telling this not bcoz I want you to leave your husband.but I want you to know more what kind of person he is.Maybe he just have bad moods bcoz of the situation that he cannot do what he wanted to accomplish for the family.If you know who he really is,then justbe patience and hold on.sacrifice and understand.But if you know that its not going good anymore and will just lose yourself one day.then decide to leave,with your son.Its useless to keep a marriagefor the sake of the kids.but its not healthy for them to see family falling apart.Weigh things out,not.just for yourself,but for.your son and for the love you both have.remember your reason why you marry him.I stilll hope you the best!!

I was once in your situation .He became a burden to me rather than a husband or a partner.I have given him many chances for the sake of our daughter,and obviously to save the marriage.But later on I felt I lose myself.I mean I have a life a beautiful life ahead without him..then I escape from the house with my daughter with me,.he begged for us to come.back...I told him we will come back only if I see progress in your life,find job and be a responsible person..I know.him so well,that back of my head I know he cant make it..I continue my life with my daughter peacefully..after a year I found out he had girlfriend.and then eventually got 2 kids,and then same story the girl left him bcoz of his attitude..and then he.again had.many relationship,same story girl left him..I am telling this not bcoz I want you to leave your husband.but I want you to know more what kind of person he is.Maybe he just have bad moods bcoz of the situation that he cannot do what he wanted to accomplish for the family.If you know who he really is,then justbe patience and hold on.sacrifice and understand.But if you know that its not going good anymore and will just lose yourself one day.then decide to leave,with your son.Its useless to keep a marriagefor the sake of the kids.but its not healthy for them to see family falling apart.Weigh things out,not.just for yourself,but for.your son and for the love you both have.remember your reason why you marry him.I stilll hope you the best!!