I am nearing 30 and have never been in a serious relationship. Guys either don't want me or just want to "hook up" or be "friends with benefits". What is so wrong with me that no body wants me? I'm not unattractive although people make me feel that way ... I'm so unsure of myself and have such low self esteem .. how can I expect anyone else to love me?

I am nearing 30 and have never been in a serious relationship. Guys either don't want me or just want to "hook up" or be "friends with benefits". What is so wrong with me that no body wants me? I'm not unattractive although people make me feel that way ... I'm so unsure of myself and have such low self esteem .. how can I expect anyone else to love me? 

I don't know where coming from and I don't even know if you are male or female but I know that some people just want something to talk about in between. Go get informed about something really passionate about and show others that what you have inside is worth seeing and maybe they might be with you.

I don't know where coming from and I don't even know if you are male or female but I know that some people just want something to talk about in between. Go get informed about something really passionate about and show others that what you have inside is worth seeing and maybe they might be with you.

Re: Alone forever?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's these type of guys that treat girls as if they're fast food that deserves a big smack on the head. You have to learn how to love yourself first though, raise that self esteem. Don't look out for what other people think. Be confident and keep your head high! Keep your vibe and energy up and only then will you attract what you're after. Because if you have low esteem, un-confident and think u attract all these trash, then you absolutely will. The law of the universe its simple. Believe in what you want without an ounce of doubt and you will have it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's these type of guys that treat girls as if they're fast food that deserves a big smack on the head. You have to learn how to love yourself first though, raise that self esteem. Don't look out for what other people think. Be confident and keep your head high! Keep your vibe and energy up and only then will you attract what you're after. Because if you have low esteem, un-confident and think u attract all these trash, then you absolutely will. The law of the universe its simple. Believe in what you want without an ounce of doubt and you will have it.

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