Am i a bad person?

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I'm a big fan of second chances. Maybe too big of a fan but, after I try to fix the situation or suck it up and take what other people are doing/saying that is damaging our relationship I go completely numb and shut them out of my life. Everyone tells me i'm a bitter person for not being forgiving it but, part of me feels like I shouldn't just let anyone walk all over me and letting them back in will most likely give them the ok to do it again.