I was sexually assaulted at 9 through 15. I'm now 16. My mother said that I lead my older brother on. Is that true? Is she right? Am I wrong? Did I do anything to upset my parents. When I was talking to them that they said "people who wear vulgar clothing is a punishment of getting raped. Or people who say that they are ready for sex and then say no are wrong. It is a punishment. They deserve it." Do I deserve it?