My parents wont stop spoiling my brother and said life is hard for him because he has "adhd". Which he got classified as after many years of meth addiction. He's only ever had 1 job for 2 months when he was 18. He is now 30 years old. Between the 12 years he has abused our family, mentally and physically. Been in n out of jail, a registered sex offender. I think 12 years is too long for no progress but my parents say they're is progress, but every search warrant they have for him every other month there is meth pipes.... I fear if I leave he will snap one day and really hurt my parents and I won't be around to help. But sometimes I feel like if I don't leave, its slowly killing me. I work 50hrs a week to pay my bills and car, and they just gifted him a new bmw.... do you ever feel like your life is upside down?..