6 months ago
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any advice?

Recently, people have been calling me a ghoster since I've become the person they don't want me to be.


I used to be cheerful and talkative. I always got a story to tell. I was their so called "extrovert" back then.


but I dunno why I'm feeling so.. tired of all of it.


I'm tired of being the clown of everyone and someone who always smiling infront of everyone just to cheer them up.


I was the one who always asked how was their day, how was their health or if they're feeling down. I was there.


And now, I hate to admit it. but, I don't wanna talk to anyone rn.


I just want to shut them all out.


I don't want anyone to bother looking for me or asking..


I want them to treat me like I'm sort of a ghost. because.. no one is there for me when I needed someone to understand me..


But still I won't do their suggestions of me committed to someone just because I need someone to love and understand me when I know for sure that someone will end up getting tired of me. haha


so... any advice?





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6 months ago

Re: any advice?

People will always judge you no matter what. I bet people were already judging your "extrovert" self. So if people are going to judge anyway just be yourself! The people who will love you as you are will stay and those who dont appreciate your true self will vanish. It's as simple as that. Dont bother about them leaving or staying because in the end youre the one who will be happy.

If you're feeling tired of being "everyone's clown" then don't be. Because that's not what you are.

You're the one breathing, eating, sleeping and taking care of yourself, not them. So think about yourself first. Be selfish.

People AND YOURSELF will hate you more if you're not yourself so there's no need to smile if ylu dont want to. There's no need to talk if you don't want to. Just be an introvert if you want to.

So as advice...

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR MENTAL HEALTH.

BE SELFISH.

DON'T BOTHER ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE WILL SAY BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT THEY WILL JUDGE AND HATE.

You will feel better once you discover yourself and appreciate your true self.

Love you :)