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being ignored... I think.

My best friend has been ignoring me for about a month or so. I kinda feel sad because they were one of the few people who doesn't really drain my social battery (I'm an introvert lmao). We had a disagreement and we talked it out, we even continued texting after the disagreement. Now he doesn't really answer my texts or calls. I'm worried, I know I might have done something wrong. I spoke to my other friends and they all told me that there's no reason for me to be worried, or that there is no beef between him and I. But I highly doubt it. I called my other friends and spoke on the phone for hours but I still feel lonely. I don't like talking about my feelings all that much to people. I wish I was more open, but its easier to be open when you're anonymous (at least for me). Anyways, I don't know what to do. I can't even clarify whether if I did something wrong. I looked at many websites for advice. I even gave my bestfriend space.. but it's been more than a month. I know they are not dead (god forbid), because they are online and such. Maybe I'm worried for no reason. But I really don't know what to do, and I feel kinda sad..


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Re: being ignored... I think.

I’m in the same boat. Had a disagreement with some friends. Talked briefly afterwards, but nobody has called me and I haven’t called them. I’m just feeling like I’m not in a rush to spend time with them again. If they call, great. But for now I have some things I’m going to focus my attention on and perhaps later we can talk again. Pride and ego are silly when they get in the way, but sometimes you truly are the only one putting an effort in and you wonder how many more times am I going to try this. Good luck to you.