Part of me thinks that he is playing me. We flirt and text all the time, we have been friends since the 6th grade. We are in different states because of college. Every time I bring up being official, he becomes quiet, he hesitates because of the distance. We know how we feel about each other but it just makes me question, is there something that he is hiding from me? I know he is not gay, I think he isn't flirting with anyone else, I basically know his schedule and he knows mine. Is there something that I am missing. I get we are far apart but we also both know that we will be returning home. Am I being played, could he just be lying to be to get what he wants?