Most times when something bad happens we blame others. In reality it’s usually everyone involved. I didn’t know my wife was sick. I myself was near death. I got to where I didn’t do much due to disease. I didn’t support her as I should have. Her mom was mean to me; but I over reacted because I was mad at my dad. That one moment led to a divorce. I got an infection; nearly died, & am very sick. One of my children got so stressed he nearly died. My ex got so stressed she’s very sick & May die. All of that because I couldn’t be the bigger person & overlook her mom. I cry everyday. I miss my wife. I must kids.