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Boyfriend vs. Toxic mother

I am 19 years old in my second year of college and I have found the person that I can see myself marrying. Problem is my mom thinks he's immature because he does treat her the way she wants to be treated( she feels as though because she did such an "amazing job" raising me(which i beg to differ) that he should be treating like the queen that she is because if it wasn't for her I would not be here which includes always making the first move and continously going out of way etc..) He is trying but my mom always seems to have a problem with everything whether its him saying Hello instead of "Good Morning Ms. Thomas" etc. She's giving me an ultimatum and saying because we come as a package and if she doesn't like him than I should end it with him. She did this with my older sister and shunned her. She doesn't consider my sister her daughter anymore. She wants to kick me out because I seem to be following the same path. I don't want to break my boyfriend's heart and regret losing the man that id love to marry to make my mom satisfied and to have a roof over my head. I know she is wrong for putting a limit on my happiness and it is toxic of her to make me fear her by doing whatever she wants me too, but a part of me doesn't really know what to do if I didn't have my mother in my life. i need support, do y'all agree? any of you experienced this before? what should I do?