I need help.My 24 yr old son committed suicide by jumping from a high rice. He had depression. My husband is a harasser. I tolerated him for 27 yrs. My 19 yr old daughter is disturbed with the circumstances. I have to act to look normal for her. But I am broken. Need to cry. Looking for a shoulder for support.Koi hai kya?

I need help.My 24 yr old son committed suicide by jumping from a high rice. He had depression. My husband is a harasser. I tolerated him for 27 yrs. My 19 yr old daughter is disturbed with the circumstances. I have to act to look normal for her. But I am broken. Need to cry. Looking for a shoulder for support.Koi hai kya?

First of all, I am so sorry for your loss, Losing a child is one of the most traumatic events for any parent. I can only begin to imagine how much pain you must have... You said your husband was a harrasser...? That is never ok. The first step towards moving forwards and recovering from your current broken state is practical action. I don't know your circumstances, but if your husband repeatedly harasses you OR you are a victim of domestic violence, then you need to seek help. Call the police , to report him. tell them that he has harassed or used violence against you, and they will take care of it. It may be hard to do, but you don't need that kind of stress in your life right now. Now, I know right now you have a lot of emotional pain going on. Your sons death has affected not only you, but your daughter. It has to be extremely hard to pretend to be fine for her, so you dont have to. Be honest with your daughter, (communicating is key) Let her know that you are not feeling very well right now. Tell her that you are very affected by your sons death. Then tell her that although you would like to move forward from this, you are feeling very sad right now and you will need some time to grieve. Because your daughter is not a minor (19). This will be easier for her to understand, and it will be easier on you because she is not completely dependent on your care. What im trying to say is, that it is better if you are honest with your daughter about your true feelings. Because nobody, and i mean nobody, can keep up the `everything is fine ` act for long. As a grieving parent, you will most likely need some support to help you overcome the pain that your sons death has caused you. For that, I can only recommend therapy. Or alternatively, you could do some research online to try and find a support group near you for parents grieving the loss of their children. Another option, if you really just need someone to listen, is to call a mental health helpline by phone. It might seem a little strange at first. But talking though your issues with someone can lift you mood and give you strength. They may even be able to give you advice or help you get referred to some therapy you need. That is all my advice for you.... i am really sorry this has happened to you, and i believe that you can truly feel better with time and support. You are in a dark place now, but it can get better, maybe it seems impossible now, but trust me , you are strong , and you can do anything you put your mind to I will pray for you and im here to talk if you need ^_^ !! I hope this helped, Im sorry if my advice was kind of mediocre !! good luck :)

First of all, I am so sorry for your loss, Losing a child is one of the most traumatic events for any parent. I can only begin to imagine how much pain you must have...You said your husband was a harrasser...?  That is never ok. The first step towards moving forwards and recovering from your current broken state is practical action. I don't know your circumstances, but if your husband repeatedly harasses you OR you are a victim of domestic violence, then you need to seek help. Call the police , to report him. tell them that he has harassed or used violence against you, and they will take care of it. It may be hard to do, but you don't need that kind of stress in your life right now. Now, I know right now you have a lot of emotional pain going on. Your sons death has affected not only you, but your daughter. It has to be extremely hard to pretend to be fine for her, so you dont have to. Be honest with your daughter, (communicating is key) Let her know that you are not feeling very well right now. Tell her that you are very affected by your sons death. Then tell her that although you would like to move forward from this, you are feeling very sad right now and you will need some time to grieve. Because your daughter is not a minor (19). This will be easier for her to understand, and it will be easier on you because she is not completely dependent on your care. What im trying to say is, that it is better if you are honest with your daughter about your true feelings. Because nobody, and i mean nobody, can keep up the `everything is fine ` act for long.As a grieving parent, you will most likely need some support to help you overcome the pain that your sons death has caused you. For that, I can only recommend therapy. Or alternatively, you could do some research online to try and find a support group near you for parents grieving the loss of their children. Another option, if you really just need someone to listen, is to call a mental health helpline by phone. It might seem a little strange at first. But talking though your issues with someone can lift you mood and give you strength. They may even be able to give you advice or help you get referred to some therapy you need.That is all my advice for you.... i am really sorry this has happened to you, and i believe that you can truly feel better with time and support. You are in a dark place now, but it can get better, maybe it seems impossible now, but trust me , you are strong , and you can do anything you put your mind to I will pray for you and im here to talk if you need ^_^ !!I hope this helped, Im sorry if my advice was kind of mediocre !! good luck :)