My dad has been diagnosed with cancer and we are yet to be told how dangerous it is, what type of chemo he will need, etc. I'm only 19, turning 20 next month, but my life as I know it will definitely never be the same, even if he (hopefully) fully recovers from it and lives until he's 100. God cannot exist if He allows these terrible, terrible things to happen to innocent people. I don't care if it's a part of "my path" or my dad's "path" or "journey" or any of that bs. I wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone - ANYONE. Please always shower your loved ones with attention and love. You truly never know when it will be the last time you see them. Forgive quickly because this life is too short.