I am a cheater. There I said it publicly. I have always been a cheater in every relationship. It's not my wife's fault. It's my fault for not getting help. I am making a change and will be a better person. Seeking help and going to be a better human!

I am a cheater. There I said it publicly. I have always  been  a cheater in every relationship. It's not my wife's fault. It's my fault for not getting help. I am making a change and will be a better person. Seeking help and going to be a better human! 

I feel like i'm projecting my own struggles but hopefully this is helpful in some way.My father was a cheater as well. But i've always been quite an empathetic person, so even if it hurt me so badly to know what he had done, i understood that he was in pain as well. His actions hurt him too. I think it must be sad and perhaps tiring to live that life. But we are all humans, we all make mistakes, we are all hurt inside and in consequence hurt those around us. The important thing is to own up to our mistakes and strive to be better people. Even though i don't know you, i'm glad that you decided to change. Remember to be patient and kind to yourself through the process, if you make mistakes again, it's okay, say sorry and continue to try to be better. You got this!

I feel like i'm projecting my own struggles but hopefully this is helpful in some way.My father was a cheater as well. But i've always been quite an empathetic person, so even if it hurt me so badly to know what he had done, i understood that he was in pain as well. His actions hurt him too. I think it must be sad and perhaps tiring to live that life. But we are all humans, we all make mistakes, we are all hurt inside and in consequence hurt those around us. The important thing is to own up to our mistakes and strive to be better people. Even though i don't know you, i'm glad that you decided to change. Remember to be patient and kind to yourself through the process, if you make mistakes again, it's okay, say sorry and continue to try to be better. You got this!