Idk why it just hit me that my mom is too attached to me. When i was a teen she would obligate me to sleep in her room because keeping two ac units on was a waste of money. Now as an adult i feel like i have no privacy. She never let me lock the door and now on my last year of college, when i’m masturbating for instance (woman btw) it feels incredibly weird for me not to have my privacy, so i choose to lock it, sometimes when i’m chatting with my bf, and its like she wants to kick it down and starts yelling all sorts of nonsense. I also have my first relationship with a guy I really like and we want to spend some time together, alone, but every time i want to go out to see him, there she is, saying no an that we need to run some errands. Also its not like she doesn’t like him, she asks how he’s doing and talks lovely things about him. Bottom line is that I need my space. Period.