I currently am in a 4 year relationship, but last year I fell for one of my colleagues unintentionally. He actually initiated and tried to make a move on me, at first I tried rejecting him. But he started being really sweet and interested on another level, he started becoming a better person by listening to what I say. Then he started kissing my forehead, asking me how I got home from work, he even kept saying that I’m better than most girls he met/meet. By the time I tried to make a move, he rejected me and told me he didn’t wanna end up raping me. But he’s obviously still interested. Btw he also is seeing another girl during the entire perido we had something going on. Help, dunno what it means.