I am going to college but I am torn between being a Doctor or an Engineer. Well seeing myself as a doctor and in the E.R. makes me feel good and I know it's hard but treating people is a great thing to do also when my family needs my help for their health issues especially my parents if they grow old I can help them but it comes with a price, my time for my family and knowing myself I value my time for them and If I have my own family I don't want my child to be distant to me or grow up me not by her/his side when she/he needs me. While being an Engineer erases all those worries and I can work to my fathers' company and I know he secretly wants me to be one especially because I am the youngest and my older siblings did not choose that path but he doesn't say it directly since he always says to choose what makes me happy.But dad if you say to choose what makes me happy, I am actually asking that question myself since I chose those two as my choices because I know you and mom want me to be one of those two, don't get me wrong I actually like those jobs, I just don't know which one to choose and not end up regretting my decision.