I was with my grandparents yesterday. I am an adult but was with them in the afternoon hours that they would sometimes babysit when I was a kid. No one else was there. 25 years ago I was with them the Sunday before Mother's Day. Usually if babysitting some or all of my 4 siblings would be there. That weekend it was just me. My parents had gone to the shore and I did not want to go, I didn't like my brother's friend that was coming so they babysat me. This weekend I didn't want to go as I did not want to get caught up in some gossip my sister had spread. So I said I would babysit the grandparents, yes I was the babysitter (my grandfather has Alzheimer's). He wanted me to go through the trash with him and see what his daughter, my aunt had thrown out. Well when I was a kid I, being OCD, had a compulsion of going through the trash so he would gently lure me away for my Mom's sake (I would make a mess and hoard stuff). So why does this matter and why am I writing it? Well 25 years ago on the first weekend in May when this happened the weekend was followed by an eventful weekend with a Baptism in my mother's family. Same day was a Massive Plane Crash. Valujet Flight 592 in the Florida Everglades. Well I am flying to Denver next Saturday for a funeral 3 days later. It will be ab eventful Mother's Day Weekend just like 25 years ago. Will history repeat itself? Probably not, but it feels creepy. Very creepy. If I don't post after next Saturday, you know why. I am flying Southwest Airlines, they bought AirTran which was the new name for ValueJet after the crash publicity effected business.I hope I get there safe. I will be riding back with my father in the car but am flying out early.