When I was a kid I swore I’d never marry. I’m male. Every female in my family cheated; divorced, & was unhappy in marriage. Then I met the love of my life. I changed my plans for her. Didn’t take the jobs that I’d had retirements from. Went into massive debt. I’d never undo it now. Have amazing kids. But after being married for 35 yrs she suddenly divorced me. It’s so funny. I had $40 retirement she couldn’t touch. She got sick so I spent a bunch of it on her. About 2 months later she divorce me. I’ve spent the rest since helping her. I gave her the house. In return I’m never allowed to see my kids. I’m on the edge of homelessness. I have no hope. My advice to young people. Plan for your own future. Never marry. No matter how much you love someone else; & think they love you, it probably won’t last.