There are times when I feel like i really really love this person, but there are also times when i dont feel anything towards that person. This person is my lover and we've been dating for about 4 years now. Our relationship is on and off. I dont know if i have a psychological problem because there are times when I know im supposed to cry when we fight or when we cool off or something, but I don't. There are times when that person is calling me and I'd rather not answer the phone. I am not seeing anyone else nor do i have any interest in another. I'm just confused with my feelings and its been a problem for me for 4 years.
Am i just an asshole? Or is there something wrong?