We have been married for 14 years. I feel like he doesn't love me at times. He hardly ever says it and I feel like any type of kiss is initiated by me. He never tells me I'm beautiful, pretty, or whatever. I believe I am attractive and he doesn't seem to care if other guys might be giving me attention. I should know my husband and he should know me. I just dont understand why I feel like we are strangers most of the time. Life is busy, we have 2 young kids, and we work opposite schedules. It seems impossible to even think about a good time to talk to him about this. When I think of where our relationship is at I want to cry and think I deserve better. Problem is he is a good man - not really sure if there is better in all other ways - except in loving me.