Last year i went on a school trip and has nobody to talk to. That was untill this guy that i knew because he was friends with my best friend but ive only ment him a few times. He hung out with me the entire time and we had a lot of fun. I never got any bad vibes from him and he didnt do anything on the trip besides hug me when i asked him not too but i brushed it off because it was only a hug. I never talked to him after the trip till a few weeks later when he randomly DMed my instagram. at first everything was just like it was on the school trip... till he confessed he had feelings for me. At the time i was dating somebody and when i told him this he said he would wait for me even if i didnt have feelings. I thought this was weird but still looked past it and thought nothing of it. we talked for a while and he started saying thing that concerned me a lot. He told me he was a diagnose sociopath and that he didn't feel sympathy. I don't like to judge people based off there mental illnesses so i stayed talking to him. Then one day he started saying things like "I could f*ck the sh*t out of you and you would love ever second of it even if you didnt want it" and "Im gonna eat you out wither you want it or not" and he would threaten to hurt me and himself if I told anyone about what he was saying to me. When I told him it made me uncomftorable he said he found it amussing that i was uncomftorable He even once cut himself so that i would stay friends with him. I was so scared he was gonna hurt me. This was a year ago and ive moved schools since then but now he goes to my school and he keeps trying to talk to me and interact with me but im teriffied to be near him. Am i over reacting?(sorry for the bad spelling and grammer)

Last year i went on a school trip and has nobody to talk to. That was untill this guy that i knew because he was friends with my best friend but ive only ment him a few times. He hung out with me the entire time and we had a lot of fun. I never got any bad vibes from him and he didnt do anything on the trip besides hug me when i asked him not too but i brushed it off because it was only a hug. I never talked to him after the trip till a few weeks later when he randomly DMed my instagram. at first everything was just like it was on the school trip... till he confessed he had feelings for me. At the time i was dating somebody and when i told him this he said he would wait for me even if i didnt have feelings. I thought this was weird but still looked past it and thought nothing of it. we talked for a while and he started saying thing that concerned me a lot. He told me he was a diagnose sociopath and that he didn't feel sympathy. I don't like to judge people based off there mental illnesses so i stayed talking to him. Then one day he started saying things like "I could f*ck the sh*t out of you and you would love ever second of it even if you didnt want it" and "Im gonna eat you out wither you want it or not" and he would threaten to hurt me and himself if I told anyone about what he was saying to me. When I told him it made me uncomftorable he said he found it amussing that i was uncomftorable He even once cut himself so that i would stay friends with him. I was so scared he was gonna hurt me. This was a year ago and ive moved schools since then but now he goes to my school and he keeps trying to talk to me and interact with me but im teriffied to be near him. Am i over reacting?(sorry for the bad spelling and grammer)

No it’s not sexual harassment (I think, I’m not an expert tho) but you are definitely in a situation that you need to get out of. Tell someone. He won’t know if you do. Tell the police. There’s this thing called childline (their number: 0800 1111). Just search it in google and it will come up. They can send help and are part of the NSPCC. I’m not sure how it works outside the uk tho so you may want to look that up if you’re in America or somewhere. Just go tell someone. Ik it’s really hard and awkward to say something like that to anyone and ik that when you say it, you want to sink into the floor and never be looked at again but this is serious. Just tell someone.

No it’s not sexual harassment (I think, I’m not an expert tho) but you are definitely in a situation that you need to get out of. Tell someone. He won’t know if you do. Tell the police. There’s this thing called childline (their number: 0800 1111). Just search it in google and it will come up. They can send help and are part of the NSPCC. I’m not sure how it works outside the uk tho so you may want to look that up if you’re in America or somewhere. Just go tell someone. Ik it’s really hard and awkward to say something like that to anyone and ik that when you say it, you want to sink into the floor and never be looked at again but this is serious. Just tell someone.

Re: Dose it count as sexual harassment?

yes, it is harassment as the actual meaning of harassment is keeping in contact with someone even when they dont want to, whether through calls, or physically and even through chat. i had a similar experience. these boys mainly feed on attention , they dont care with it is positive or negative. They find your fear of them amusing, as it makes them feel in control. Also, the texts he sends u r offensive so i would recommend that u report this under cyber laws. Maybe save some screenshots too.also, try ignoring him and dont give him the satisfaction he wants by reacting aggresively at all, because he may try to manipulate u ny making u angry.And, tell someone about it, preferably an elder, because, clearly what he is doing is wrong, and the only encouragement he has is that u dont tell someone, if u dont report it, maybe he will leave u, but then he will find another victim. So, if u bring his texts etc to limelight, u will not only save urself but also any future victims of his.

yes, it is harassment as the actual meaning of harassment is keeping in contact with someone even when they dont want to, whether through calls, or physically and even through chat. i had a similar experience.  these boys mainly feed on attention , they dont care with it is positive or negative. They find your fear of them amusing, as it makes them feel in control. Also, the texts he sends u r offensive so i would recommend that u report this under cyber laws. Maybe save some screenshots too.also, try ignoring him and dont give him the satisfaction he wants by reacting aggresively at all, because he may try to manipulate u ny making u angry.And, tell someone about it, preferably an elder, because, clearly what he is doing is wrong, and the only encouragement he has is that u dont tell someone, if u dont report it, maybe he will leave u, but then he will find another victim. So, if u bring his texts etc to limelight, u will not only save urself but also any future victims of his.

There r cyber laws against such behaviour , as he is portraying, report him

There r cyber laws against such behaviour , as he is portraying, report him                                                                                                                        

Thank you to everyone who is putting out suggestions. I can’t tell an adult about this. My parents would kill me for not telling them immediately. He’s left me alone for a while again up till today. He tried talking to me again. I don’t even think he knows what he did was wrong. My boyfriend and friends are still helping keep him away when they can.

Thank you to everyone who is putting out suggestions. I can’t tell an adult about this. My parents would kill me for not telling them immediately. He’s left me alone for a while again up till today. He tried talking to me again. I don’t even think he knows what he did was wrong. My boyfriend and friends are still helping keep him away when they can.

Another update. I now have a fucking class with him. He sits right fucking next to me. I’m not gonna fucking make it through the year without having to talk to him. I CANT EVEN HANDLE BEING IN THE SAME ROOM AS HIM. I wish I was in a safe enough environment to report him but I can’t! I want this all to be over!!

Another update. I now have a fucking class with him. He sits right fucking next to me. I’m not gonna fucking make it through the year without having to talk to him. I CANT EVEN HANDLE BEING IN THE SAME ROOM AS HIM. I wish I was in a safe enough environment to report him but I can’t! I want this all to be over!!

you were absolutely NOT overreacting honestly I would try to even get a restraining order at this point don’t become a victim to this craziness all because you were trying to be nice and give him a chance please protect yourself sometimes in life is is necessary to be selfish choose yourself over anyone’s feelings especially when it comes to your safety or your spiritual and mental well-being... whoever you are I hope you’re safe :)

you were absolutely NOT overreacting honestly I would try to even get a restraining order at this point don’t become a victim to this craziness all because you were trying to be nice and give him a chance please protect yourself sometimes in life is is necessary to be selfish choose yourself over anyone’s feelings especially when it comes to your safety or your spiritual and mental well-being... whoever you are I hope you’re safe :) 