Whats with the double standards that people put up every single day. As a feminist, it pisses me off. Because I'm tired of watching guys body shame girls and then getting hate over it while when girls go "Must be small" to yk pp size, it's not considered hateful? Like that's body shaming as well you know. Making people feel insecure about their size, thats just messed up. Instead of doing that, why don't you just stop? Because now you're turning the situation upside down, and it's just going to keep repeating.I get it, it annoys people to see guys body shame so you want to get back at them, but you just fall to their level and it doesn't make you look better in any way. Like whats with the whole gender wars thing?Another thing that bothers me is when people don't understand that we know it's not all men. We know it's not all women. We know it's not all people. But it's enough. I don't get how you can't just go "Yeah, a lot of us do that". Like a lot of people run an ego-based life, but not all of humanity does, but people know that so they don't go "Not all of us are like that"Like if you want to make a change, start thinking outside of your bubble and realizing that theres a bigger picture to everythingWhy do men get to mess around, why do they get to have a higher opinion on everything. Why is it always "Well you're just a girl". Like okay but why does that invalidate what I have to say about certain things? Why is it a big deal that I messed around when I was younger? Why is that such a big deal for you when I have shown that I changed or that I stick to one person?You know what I don't like either? The whole "Well men shouldn't have an opinion on women things". I find that insanely stupid. I get it, like they might not be the people being affected, but as soon as they go "I agree with you" then all of a sudden it gets changed and men can have an opinion on it? Because they agreed with you? Like just because someone disagrees or thinks something different from you doesn't mean they can't have an opinion. It's not fair that as soon as someone agrees with you, you let them keep the opinionLike whats with the going back and forth? Being hypocritical 24/7? Thinking that being like that is going to change the world? Like it's not. All we are doing is causing constant gender wars and instead of being the bigger person, both sides refuse to get along. Every little thing has to be a debate. A fight. What's with KAM? Like I get that it's like "Oh well it's not all men but it's the bad ones" and I understand where it's coming from, but do you see the issue with saying that? Thats literally the opposite of what we are fighting for. Thats just causing issues of making one gender better than the other. And then you get upset when men oppose it and go KAW. Like I understand the frustration because thats annoying but imagine hearing people say they want to do that to a whole gender. It's a really flawed mentality and I know it's not as serious as it's made out to be but that doesn't change how messed up it isNow this is going to get into something really serious and I apologize if it bothers you but men get raped too. They get sexually harassed too. And I understand that its always "Well it's more women" okay great, I understand. I've been harassed more than 15 times by people 5-20 years older than me. I get it. But lets NOT invalidate that others go through it too. Because it's always about women. Men rarely get talked about. Because theres more women who get raped and harassed right? But can we talk about the people who ALSO deal with it who are too scared to speak out about it because their own gender goes "Man up" and jokes about rape and stuff? Like men deal with it too. They are also scared to openly talk about it. They are also scared to say "Yeah I was raped by a girl" because of things like "well girls cant rape". They can, because I was raped by one. But that already gets pushed away because it wasn't a man who raped me. Like can we acknowledge that they deal with it too? Because a lot of people ignore itI'm a feminist, I want equal rights for everyone, I don't want one group of people on top of everyone else, I want everyone to be seen as equal and I want to fight for that. I'm a female, so I understand what we go through, but I'm sick of the double standards that we put up. I'm sick of the erasure that we do of the other side. I'm tired of the constant gender wars. And I know it's not going to stop any time soon, but I just had to vent on it.