This time last year I told myself, 'you have to give your marriage another try'. I had found, repeatedly, that my husband had been sexting other women. Each time I forgave and tried to forget. Each time my trust in him was shredded and whenever I gained a little back for him he'd do it again. The last time it happened I felt something break inside me.Now I'm 30, we've been married for 4 years (together for 10), and I'm staring into the void. I feel love for this man but I'm no longer attracted to him. We have sex maybe once or twice a month and it's become something I just get done to keep him happy. Now he wants children and although my biological clock has started ticking, that is the last thing I want.Now I have a dilemma, leave the man I've spent my entire adult life with so far and start fresh, taking the risk I might never settle and have a family.Or stay, accept the fact that I married him, have some kids and hope he doesn't ruin us again.

This time last year I told myself, 'you have to give your marriage another try'. I had found, repeatedly, that my husband had been sexting other women. Each time I forgave and tried to forget. Each time my trust in him was shredded and whenever I gained a little back for him he'd do it again. The last time it happened I felt something break inside me.Now I'm 30, we've been married for 4 years (together for 10), and I'm staring into the void. I feel love for this man but I'm no longer attracted to him. We have sex maybe once or twice a month and it's become something I just get done to keep him happy. Now he wants children and although my biological clock has started ticking, that is the last thing I want.Now I have a dilemma, leave the man I've spent my entire adult life with so far and start fresh, taking the risk I might never settle and have a family.Or stay, accept the fact that I married him, have some kids and hope he doesn't ruin us again.

Girl...pls run! I have stayed in a loveless marriage (for the kids) and kept thinking it would get better. U are very young even though u dont feel it. There is no excuse for a man to be sexting other women. He WILL eventually start cheating on u and expect u to forgive him everytime. The worst thing u can do is have kids and then feel totally trapped..and depressed. It's better to be alone than have someone and feel so alone. U will find another man who deserves and adores u. Life will fall into place. Dont sell urself short and get out there and enjoy a real life. Best of luck to u. (And the advise of sexting other men is just creepy)

Girl...pls run! I have stayed in a loveless marriage (for the kids) and kept thinking it would get better.  U are very young even though u dont feel it.  There is no excuse for a man to be sexting other women.  He WILL eventually start cheating on u and expect u to forgive him everytime.  The worst thing u can do is have kids and then feel totally trapped..and depressed.  It's better to be alone than have someone and feel so alone.  U will find another man who deserves and adores u.  Life will fall into place.  Dont sell urself short and get out there and enjoy a real life.  Best of luck to u.  (And the advise of sexting other men is just creepy) 