Im really unhappy in my relationship. I don’t know what to do. I feel locked in and just ....hate them on some level. They are depressed, clinically, (so am I) but they refuse to get therapy. They are convinced that the meds are going to do all the work. They lay around the house all day long, as they are furloughed, and don’t do anything. If they manage to do one thing in a day they expect praise for it. Meanwhile, I’m working 40 hours a week and going to school full time. They don’t do anything around the house unless I ask them to. We have a chore chart of things that need to get done every day because they told me if I put that up they will do it but they don’t do any of it so I’m back to asking them to do things. Ive spoken to them about these things and things will change for about a week and then it’s back to the same thing. I’m in a bad financial situation (because who isn’t right now?) so if I leave I don’t know where I would go. I don’t expect much of a response I just ....wanted to vent.