I honestly don't mind being fat but I with my family would accept me. I used to be so skinny but after my last child, I started to eat a lot more food. I gained a lot of weight and I continued to eat unhealthy. My husband sometimes feeds me in bed and I'm a total slob now. I love being fat and being a gross gassy woman. I wish my kids would accept that I don't want to lose weight and I wish my relatives understood that I'm not having a midlife crisis, I'm just happy.