Im having feelings for someone 30 yrs younger,,a man. i feel silly,,i want to send something, a card but ive been hearing its creepy???. How do you get to know someone who walks by your house and has smiled when ive passed them a few times?. Im lost as to know what to do, and im upset as im an older lady. I dont look old,,im 56. Whats wrong with me liking a young man,,lots of relationships happen like this dont they??. Im having caring feelings too,your troubled young man and i want to help!. You have gorgeous smile,,i think your led easily by others. Do i send a card,,anonymous at first??,,i need to know what to do to start some hope for this,,or try. Its making me feel good again,,and im not lonely or vulnerable if thats what your thinking. Just need advice,,or help really.I dont want to be creepy,,but how do i get to know them??. Feelings get so strong,,its surprising.