So this year I went on a trip to a poorer country. I was told to not do or say anything that would make one of the men think I liked them because it would cause many problems. However, when I got back one of the men added me on Facebook and then we started talking. I only intended and still intend on being just friends, but I have never felt this way about anyone. I don’t want to hurt him, but I also know that we are talking too much and he has hinted that he has feelings for me. Right now we talk almost every day, so I want to only reply a couple times a week to distance myself. I know he will get mad at me and ask me if I missed him though and I don’t know what to say to it. I do miss him and I do have feelings for him, but I know it can’t ever happen and I just don’t know what to do.