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Friends boyfriend wants threesome

My best friends boyfriend wants a threesome. My best friend and her boyfriend started going out a couple of years ago. From the moment I met him I got a bad gut feeling about the guy and he’s done nothing to prove my gut feeling wrong.


Over a year ago my friend told me that her boyfriend kept on asking for a threesome even though she kept on saying no. Mainly because she’s not comfortable with her body enough to be with someone else. The main reason being that she told him that if they were to have a threesome with a woman then they’d have to have one with a man and he was totally against that. I don’t know what’s changed since then but now she’s not opposed to it.


My best friend and I are in a group chat with two other friends. She started to message them to let me know what her boyfriend was saying about me. She sent a picture of her boobs being grabbed by her boyfriend, he said that he was imagining that one boob was hers and the other was mine. I felt so uncomfortable.


Had it been one of my other friends then I would have probably laughed,taking it as a joke. I’m a lesbian and my other two friends fiancés and I basically have a “bromance” I get on with them very well and we make jokes, pretend to flirt and basically have banter. I’ve never had that with my best friends boyfriend. We’ve hardly had any conversations in the 2 years that I’ve known him and non of them were in a joking, friendly manner.


I am not an attractive woman. I am also butch and my friends boyfriend is into very feminine women. I know he doesn’t find me attractive. He’s either making these comments for one of two reasons. Reason 1 being he is one of those guys that wants to sleep with a lesbian so he can boast how amazing at sex he is as he turned a lesbian straight. He’s one of those guys who’s homophobic but loves to watch lesbians. Reason 2 is that my friend is very self conscious and if there’s a female friend who she’d feel comfortable being with, it would most likely be me.


Every couple of months my friend messages the group chat letting me know what sexual comments her boyfriends made about me. Today she messaged to say that he claims that him and I have an agreement that he will touch my boobs while I touch his dick. I obviously did not say that. My friend then says that she looked back at the group chat. What happened was my friend sent a video of her boyfriend playing with her boobs through her T-shirt. She said that he said I should come down so he could do that to me. Then said that he said he’ll do it to both of us at the same time. I was uncomfortable but no one said anything. This was in March and I didn’t know what to say so I just joked that he’ll have to wait till lockdown is over and added a crying laughing face. He took that to mean I agreed and also agreed to touch his dick.


Am I crazy or is this a form of sexual harassment? This is not like my friend at all but when it comes to him she can see no wrong.



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Re: Friends boyfriend wants threesome

It is, and her bf is a dick.

I'd try to just say that to her face next time she tells you stuff like that. She's a shitty friend, and I guess you only keep in touch cause it's a group

dont do it. You obviously feel uncomfortable about it so I’m telling you, not suggesting, telling you not to. If they say but you said yes before, they probably won’t listen to you saying it was a joke so tell them you’ve changed your mind. Dong say yes. For your sake (yours being more important) and your friends sake. Don’t do it