What should I do when I am starting to catch feelings for my friends ex? My school is pretty small so it’s very common kind of to date a friends ex, but I have always avoided that so I would try to date outside of my school. This time is different though...It all started when I was helping him get over her because she asked me to do so. I did and then we came kind of good friends. Then we started talking more and I warned myself not to get attached because of two reasons: friends ex and rebound. I didn’t want to be that person so I really tried hard to never see him that way. It got to a point where it’s flirting but not and i also asked her if i ever did would it be okay and she said it’s fine and she wouldn’t be mad, but be mad at him. Isn’t that technically her being mad at me though? So I am stuck.