Spouse and I both work. I always have a zoom meeting at noon, length of which varies between 10mins and an hour, they have them all over the clock. I try to get meals made in my mornings if it's slow but sometimes if I'm slammed at work I'll miss getting things done - because I'm busy too. They never, NEVER, fix their own meals and get pissed if I miss their ever changing window to eat, they'll even choose to starve themselves than try to eat something that was late. If they have 15 minutes to eat instead of 20-30 minutes they won't even take a bite. Won't even eat whatever they can before the next meeting. They don't want a spouse, they want a robot servant who costs nothing to maintain and caters to their every need.I wish they'd choke to death on their lunch.