my kids are amazing athletes. Great at everything. I’m going to leave the name of a sport out because so many are homophobes. Well my introduction to girls in the men’s room caught me off guard. (Oh yeah. Someone started complaining about my posts. I guess on here since only place I’ve been. Offensive something. I just deleted it. They want to block my free speech go for it. I was try to help people. If cuss words are worse than kids wanting to kill selves we have an issue. So I want to toss some stuff out first). So we get immersed into yet another sport. They’d each be in like 5-8 a yr. crazy. They were so good they’d get a pass on missed stuff. Anyways. I’m I’m mens room. In walks two women talking & a little girl. I try to climb into urinal. Long story short. Some girls in this sport insisted on using men’s room. Since they were girls the moms would accompany them. Created a dilemma. As kidney patient I had to go endlessly. They’d watch me go in at practice & know I was in there. At first I complained to them. Coaches. The moms would say she uses a stall. Huh. Cause that meant I couldn’t just go back to the stalls. Even worse. So if the doors swung open I’d lean up & cover till the girl reached crapper. Then I’d pee. I thought it rude that these specific 2 moms would then chat with me. But all the moms liked me. I’m very polite Christian. I decided the girls think are boys. Not right for moms not to come in to look out for me. They probably picked when I’m in there because I’m like a body guard. I always protect the weak. So I just adapted. Yrs ago. I never got comfortable with it. But we must be inclusive. If we leave anyone behind or isolate them then we are not who we claim to be. I would prefer a third bathroom honestly. Even if I’m the one who has to use it. It makes me uncomfortable. But I am a man. I have honor. I’d rather be uncomfortable than a child. Or even a woman who feels she’s a man. I’m old. This is a new thing. But if I’m going to pick s side; I always pick the side who needs protecting. So one time we are at the tournaments. Once again females in the men’s room. Only more of them. I’d think there’s a woman’s room. I wish they’d build a third. But so be it. My boys would freak. So we’d adapt. They’d have to stand by urinals to wait on stalls. My boys & I would go stand by them. Protect them. Once none were by urinals we’d quickly pee. One day a large male & his friend tried to yell at some girls for it. They got surrounded by me; my boys; & some other dads. We were all very large athletes. These men decided to leave quickly. Straight up. I don’t like girls in the men’s room. Seems wrong. I would like a third bathroom. If you won’t use it I will. Label it family. But I will respect your choice to use it because I realize in your mind you feel like a male. So I’ll adjust the best I can. And I will fight anyone who dares threaten or misuse you. If I’m there & able I will always have your back. So will my sons. So if there’s some yahoos who feel tough taking on females. If I’m there you’d better be ready. Now in various sports it’s one on one. Many Christian boys will withdraw. I taught my boys that’s wrong. But my boys refuse to beat girls. So they’d let the girls test themselves. But my boys would hold back & intentionally lose. I’d say win. They’d say no. There choice. So be it hero’s. Cost my kids medals & titles. But they have their own code of honor & I respect that. My kids. All of them. Are awesome. Now if someone wants to report me because you don’t like my beliefs. Well then; you can stick it where the sun don’t shine.