I feel a lot of guilt going on. I believe it's my fault of holding her back. I thought I was opening her eyes about the world. In the end, I feel like she regrets her life choices more because of me.Her brother just chat her this evening saying that they are in a lot of financial problems. I cannot forget that particular line"Was going with [my name] the right decision?"That hits a lot in my gut because I did everything that I can to help her find her sense of purpose and the motivation to do something. But yeah, I think I caused her a lot.This happens in all of my relationships causing me to fall apart and make them go their original plans without me.Should I do it again?