today I had a fight with my bf. He had seen this emo girl calling people ugly and then he had said “don’t u have a arm cutting appointment to get to?” He expected me to laugh at his joke and take his side saying that the girl deserved it for being rude. I refuse to take his side knowing that I can not side with him bc his ugly way of treating people was making him ugly and I personally have friends going thru shit. He has no right to come for no ones neck bc he don’t know what’s going on between closed doors. We argued for about an hr and a half and he was furious that I wasn’t on his side, claiming that he was right and I was stupid for not choosing his side. He then realizes he’s in the wrong and says sorry after he had continued to yell at me. I told him until he is ready to talk normally and explain to me what i was tryna tell him bc I don’t he understood me or he needs to leave me alone. He choose to leave me alone.