Im not sure how I feel about life anymore. It all feels so arbitrary. What am I supposed to do. My girlfriend whom I loved and cherished just left me because shes not ready for a relationship. I respect that and I dont want to make her do anything that she doesnt want to. However, im devastated. She was my everything. I want to win her back sonehow. But im not really sure if I can. I try to act like I dont care about her anymore and be loose and sarcastic about it. But I cant. I try to ignore her bit i cant. I dont know what to feel anymore. Please help me...someone....anyone.

Im not sure how I feel about life anymore.   It all feels so arbitrary. What am I supposed to do. My girlfriend whom I loved and cherished just left me because shes not ready for a relationship. I respect that and I dont want to make her do anything that she doesnt want to. However, im devastated. She was my everything. I want to win her back sonehow. But im not really sure if I can. I try to act like I dont care about her anymore and be loose and sarcastic about it. But I cant. I try to ignore her bit i cant. I dont know what to feel anymore. Please help me...someone....anyone.

Only time can heal a broken heart but never 100% completely. We always lose a piece that can never be replaced. But know that it is not the end of the world even though it feels like it. Try to occupy yourself with your favorite hobbies or pastime. Mine happened to be playing music. I have been a drummer most all of my life and that certainly helped me to get through. You can only control yourself and your healing process that you have to go through. I know it seems impossible and that you feel like you have died. I can tell you that your best days are ahead of you, you just cannot see them right now. There are tons of articles on healing processes and things you can do to forget someone just do a Google search. I wish you the best of luck my best advice is 2 stay positive and find ways to occupy your time that give you joy and peace.

Only time can heal a broken heart but never 100% completely. We always lose a piece that can never be replaced. But know that it is not the end of the world even though it feels like it. Try to occupy yourself with your favorite hobbies or pastime. Mine happened to be playing music. I have been a drummer most all of my life and that certainly helped me to get through. You can only control yourself and your healing process that you have to go through. I know it seems impossible and that you feel like you have died. I can tell you that your best days are ahead of you, you just cannot see them right now.There are tons of articles on healing processes and things you can do to forget someone just do a Google search. I wish you the best of luck my best advice is 2 stay positive and find ways to occupy your time that give you joy and peace.