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HELP IM DESPERATE PLS REPLY

OKAY SO IK THIS ISNT ABOUT DEPRESSION OR ANXIETY LIKE MOST OF THE POSTS HERE BUT LIKE I NEED HELP. FAST.

OKAY SO IM A DEBATER AND A FRIEND IK FROM SCHOOL IS IN THE SAME DEBATE CLASS AS ME. I WAS ON ONE SIDE AND SHE WAS ON THE OTHER ONE (THERES 2 SIDES IN DEBATE) AND BASICALLY SHE MADE A POINT LIKE "RICH PPL DESERVE THEIR PRIVELEGES BC THEY WERE BORN RICH AND WE CANT TAKE IT AWAY" BASICALLY SAYING THAT RICH PPL DESERVE THEIR ADVANTAGES SUCH AS BETTER LAWYERS BC THEY WERE BORN IN A WEALTHY FAMILY. WHICH I FIND STUPID BUT-

ANYWAYS MY GRADE HAS A DISCORD GC AND HER NAME ISNT HER REAL NAME ITS SOMETHING ELSE SO I DIDNT KNOW IT WAS HER SO I MADE FUN OF HER POINT IN THE GC (SHES NEVER ACTIVE SO IDK WHY MY LUCKY HAD TO MAKE HER ACTIVE AT THAT EXACT TIME)

ANYWAYS I MADE FUN OF IT (I WAS LIKE SOMEONE JUSTSAID RICH PPL DESERVE PRIVELEGES BC THEY WERE BORN W IT LMAOO) SO I BASICALLY KINDA TRASH TALKED HER AND NOW IM GONNA DIE OF EMBARASSMENT WHAT DO I DO





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Re: HELP IM DESPERATE PLS REPLY

Hey!!! I’m a college student for reference, but in just here to say that you’re fine!! It’s ok! she might get annoyed/hurt for a moment but you were just laughing over a particularly strange thing she said. it’s all good. you weren’t trying to hurt her or anything. If she notices, feel free to apologize but like!! it’s ok!! :) you’ll be ok i promise



Easy friend! Embarrassing situations are terrible in the short run... in the long run, they aren´t as important as you think they are (trust me, I've made myself look like a complete asshole on sooooooo many ocassions). Of course, this is not a solution, but just a habit that I encourage you to aquire.

Anyway, I think the best you can do (in case she noticed your joke) is just to apologize and even to get into a debate with her. Take it easy, be open minded and listen. You don't have to change your opinion on rich people having privileges, just understand her point of view and try to see why she thinks like that. You might learn something new, who knows. Take this as an opportunity!


Finally, the best advice I can give to you is to learn from the situation! This was one of the many things that happens in life and that helps us to grow stronger and wiser.


Wishing the best to you!