what does this mean?? im anonymous for a reason, but what does this mean as if you were seeing a guy and his communication is as smooth as butter/silk talking to his female best friend but when he talks to you (a female) its not like that all the time. Also, if she talked shit upon in the past about the (female) because the female had a lot going on in her life and finally wanted to have closure with the situation with the shit talking girl best friend but the guy the female is into is saying no because she'll talk shit about me and you (in general) what does that mean? And that he talks better to the female best friend than the s.o? Does it mean "oh, let him do him"? Or something is wrong with that? And how the female caused to fail a relationship and abused the partner because of female best friend problems between the partner, girl, and the girl partner?