So sorry for how long this is. So awhile ago (during my single time) I had seen, met and talked to several different guys deciding whether or not to be intimate or keep at a distance. One guy I knew from highschool I ran into. Now back then he was fat, 270, cocky, and didnt care. When we met he was at 140, taller, and seemed to have matured (age 19)... and was I so ever wrong. At first things were good, he was kind, considerate, didn't push, and already a kid which he would help out the best he could. After several times going out, I said we can give it a shot and shortly after he did a full 360 turn. All he wanted to do was go out and spend money. He was on welfare plus several checks while I still worked a 8-11hr day 5 days a week. He had no ride which at the time I didn't mind but he demanded we go all over and travel while I didnt want to nor had the gas. He showed he didn't give much care much for his kid. I was friends with the mother who left to Alberta to be with her only family (her parents wanted nothing to do with her or the kid when she became a teen mom). As soon as he found out she left for Alberta he started punching holes in all the walls, throwing stuff, destroyed her stuff and threw it all into a bonfire. He sent her threatening messages saying he'll beat her and the kid. From what she told me she will take him to court. Thats when I started planning on getting out asap. Before the incident I started noticing something wasnt right. He said I love you and lets have a baby along with several other things; I'd kill myself if you left me, you know the way i am, I know where you live so you can't run, you're with me and can't leave, and so on. He'd "playfully" choke me out of no where and grip me so hard I'd bruise. He would always complain how he couldn't get high enough off of weed and all he would do is sit in his room, smoke and masterbate. I tried telling him to get off his ass and do something. And he would just shrug. He would shoot innocent animals with a BB gun for no reason (birds, squirrels, chipmunks, cats, skunks, raccoons etc) I lost it when I heard what he did. I grew more and more distant for my own safety. He would blow up my cell when I didnt answer and each time id snap n say I'm working or with family and his only response was "oooo she's mad". When I'd do stuff with someone else he'd message and say "well wasn't i invited?". I broke it off and he was like "thanks for a nothing relationship I'll go kill myself now thanks for destroying me" and kept saying that all my friends. I told them the story and they all blocked them and thankfully my mom and brother didn't have FB and he didn't know amy of my other family members. I blocked him from everything and thought that was it. Until he contacted a mutual friend who told me that the asshat was planning on slashing my tires and going at me. I prepared for every scenario and thankfully its been 3 years and nothing has happened. But he made 2 other accounts and tried adding me and each time I blocked him. Now with the love of my life and we have a baby on the way plus planning to move into our first home together out of the apartment I am so happy. But recently a friend messaged and said the Moron is still running his mouth about me and what he'll do but he hasn't taken any action yet. I dont want him finding out cause that'll open a new can of worms and a whole other level of a fight. I have friends and family in law enforcement who know and are ready just in case. Out of all my exs which some are now meth cocaine and herion addicts, some have kids, some have sugar mommas, some are with someone who looks similar to me. But none have ever gone to this level. And as sad as this is to say..... I really do wish he would've killed himself, I know he'll never seek a therapist or get on meds. Yes I know some may not agree but for me and my family best if he just off'd himself.