I’ve been with the same guy for eight years now and we are still living with his family. & I hate it. I never thought I would be someone who is in this situation. It’s embarrassing to me. Here I am at 28 years old living with the same people I was back when I was 20. He knows how I feel about it and has promised to move us out of here but something always happens. There was a year when we went out to room with a friend of mine and when it didn’t work out instead of “wasting money on an apartment that we would never own,” we moved back here. & his parents are so controlling that they convinced him to stop us from getting a condo last year & now, with him not working these past couple of months because of this pandemic, I doubt we will get our own house this year. & I feel so confused because I know that I can be better off without him and his family but for some reason I can’t let go.