How do I tell someone that's interested in me that I might not have the same feelings for them as they do for me..but that I still want to keep them in my life..? Because he's wonderful as my friend, but our connection lacks that spark that I need when I go to be with someone. I need someone with a lot of sexual passion because I am basically a nympho. BUT I also need a Dom because I am a submissive. This man just doesnt give me those vibes and honestly I dont think he'd ever choke me like I want..he's also not, um, sexually advanced? like i am so that makes things difficult. I feel a little bad because he likes me so much, but I'm over here like uhhhh it's missing something. He just isnt doing it for me the way others have before or the way some others do it. I want a solid relationship where I can build with them and have freaky, nasty sex and then eventually get married. Havent found that person yet, sadly.