How do you know if your in a relationship with a Narcissist? I feel numb. I love him but I hate him. I never feel like I can say I'm upset or tired or I'm bothered by something.. without it being my fault or his is worse...most of the time I end up feeling worse about myself or its my fault. He always makes it seem like he can leave when he feels like the conversation is over and I'm just stuck at home with the kids. It makes me extremely uncomfortable. I feel trapped. then the other half of me loves him and I'm scared to loose him. I can't tell if I should try to make it work or just build myself up and go.